Month: May 2021

Remember the “Why?”

A question that I often asked my staff when I was running the BIG Vision Foundation was, “What is your ‘Why?’”

I loved hearing their answers.  Why did they get up every morning and come to work?  What was their motivation?  For many years, I had a photograph that hung on the wall of one of our concession stands. In was a picture of some of the kids in our organization with the words, “This is Why” written above the photograph.  That was my reminder every morning as to why I did what I was doing.  I absolutely loved what I was doing back then, so most days I didn’t need a reminder.  However, even the best jobs in the world don’t come without their bad days.  So, when one of those bad days might crop up, it was easy for me to be able to remind myself what all of the early mornings, late nights and 80-plus hour work weeks were for.

Back then, our, “Why” is something that we talked about as a staff almost daily.  Ironically, it isn’t something that I’ve given much thought about since we’ve been on the road.

One of the objectives of this journey was to be able to help tell the stories of the people that we would meet on the road.  One of the things that I loved was hearing my mom tell the stories of the people that she met on her journey.  I found it absolutely amazing that people that she may have only spent a few minutes with as well as those that she may have spent weeks or months with could make such a great impact on her life.  Some of those people she stayed in contact with, others she didn’t, but the impacts were great in either case.  She impacted them as well.  I know this from people who I never met showing up at her memorial service and telling us what she meant to them.

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Stephen Sauer – A surprise, baseball memories, a legacy, and teaching life lessons.

Stephen was part of the pioneering Berkshire Red Sox teams.  He joined the organization in its second year of existence, just after he graduated high school and while he was attending Kutztown University.

He now resides in Winston-Salem, North Carolina and is the head baseball coach and guidance counselor at North Stokes High School in Danbury, NC.

As I was mapping out our return trip to Florida, I realized that the Lord had the stars align for us to see Stephen coach a road game against one of their big rivals, Mt. Airy.

One of the things that my mom used to love to do on her travels was surprise people by showing up on their door step, place of employment, or anywhere else that she could track them down at.  Honestly, at the time, I thought that it was always kind of goofy.  However, as I age, I also seem to now get a certain sense of satisfaction with the element of surprise as well.

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Blessed

“I am blessed; we are just so blessed.” She said over and over during our visit.

Those words came from Cozy Stover, a parent of one of my former players, Kyle Stover.  I had done a podcast with Kyle back in November when we had the opportunity to visit him and his family in York, PA on our way down to Florida.

This past Thursday, we were able to stop and visit with Kyle’s parents, Rick and Cozy.  As with every other time that I’ve been around Rick and Cozy, it was a wonderful visit.

There was one thing, however, that was a little different about this visit. Rick was in a wheelchair from a stroke that he had suffered several weeks ago.  It was his second stroke in the past year.  The first one, back in August of 2020, was relatively mild.  Back in November, when we were visiting Kyle, he got Rick and Cozy on Facetime with us and you never would have known that he even had a stroke.

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Slow Down

When we were out at Stephie’s house, we would get up early every morning and start our walk by walking with Garrett and Lillian down to the bus stop.  I would get so excited when I would see Garrett and Lillian in the morning.  Daddy and I would get up early in the morning and walk from our house on wheels up towards their garage door and wait for them to come out.  When I saw them, my tail would start wagging so fast and so hard, I sometimes thought that my butt might fly off, but luckily, it hasn’t yet.  You can tell that I’m really happy when I’m wagging my tail so hard that my butt is flying around too.  When they see me wagging my butt and tail like that, they get really happy too!  They start smiling from ear to ear and say, “Good Morning Youkie!” and start petting me and then I just get more and more excited after that.  I love when people pet me!

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April Crossley – Life Should be an Experience

April and I have been friends on Facebook for several years, but have only really started to get to know one another last year when we found out that we were both getting ready to ditch the life that our society says that we should be living.

Within a few months of each other, Sandy and I in August of 2020 and April and her husband, Justin in October of 2020 started off on our new journeys.  We all had an understanding that life needs to be experienced by getting outside and soaking in Vitamin D while making memories that will last a lifetime.  All of the “things” that we end up accumulating over time are really just that, things.  Most of which are really not actually needed.  What is needed for the true human experience is connection.  Connection to others, to nature, and to God.

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